Our little baby girl is almost here and this pregnancy experience for me, her father, has been up and down. I know her mother, my girlfriend is definitely and obviously experiencing the worse of the ups and downs. She’s dealing with something ill never be able to actually experience and I do everything I can to be as supportive as possible.

So, with that being said, when we first got together everything of course was nice and all. But I feel like I wasn’t all the way mentally there. Letting my and I believe her feelings get the best of us, I know we rushed this pregnancy. I don’t say that because I want out of my daughters life or anything like that, but I do feel as if I want out of this relationship before I get convinced that I should propose, marriage, and ultimately divorced.

I know it’s not good to think so negatively and it isn’t as if we had a huge fight or anything like that. Maybe I’m being too picky but I can tell our connection is more like a good/best friends kind of connection rather than a true “I see you” kind of connection.

If you don’t know what I mean by “I see you”, google that quote it’s from the movie Avatar. Lol.

So I definitely won’t mention these feelings to her now. Our daughter will be here in June. Should I mention it as something we need to work on or say we should call it quits now before animosity builds up in the future?