Rant - Husband not pulling weight

I feel so angry at my husband and I don't know what to do anymore. There's so much baby stuff we need to do and it all falls on me. He washes the dishes, takes out the trash, and cleans the floors and he thinks he's pulling his weight, but everything else is left to me! I'm trying to grow a human while also making the entire baby registry, finding a pediatrician, cleaning our home to make room for baby things, making appointments, registering for daycare, etc etc etc. Am I unreasonable for expecting more out of him?? I suffer from anxiety as it is and his lack of support is really taking a toll. 😢 Can any other moms relate? What can I do?

I'll add that he does have mild ADD but i shouldn't have to make him a to-do list every day. He's a grown adult. If I can work on managing my anxiety, he really needs to find tools that help him manage his ADD. I can't even count the number of times we've had this discussion...

UPDATE: We both work 40 hours a week...and he works from home. I commute.