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I know it’s hard, but don’t worry too much! Stressing yourself out won’t be healthy or helpful to your little one. Cry if you need to, feel all of the emotions that are happening, but then let them go - don’t obsess over them. Maybe grab a journal and write when you start to feel anxious? Doing that acknowledges your feelings but doesn’t allow you to stuff them inside. It sounds like you have support, both with your husband, doctor, and of course here! I’m sending lots of positive energy and thoughts your way ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Suppose to be 7 wks1day measuring 4wks5days FREAKING OUT
Went in today for our first ultrasound this morning. We didn’t see anything with belly ultrasound so we went vaginal. There is a sac in the uterus and measuring 4 wks 5days all around. The sac is in the right place and the measurements are all equal so she said that was good. We are scheduled to come back in 2 weeks. I am trying not to be upset but I had my heart set on seeing our baby and seeing a heartbeat. She did give us all information.
I’m trying not to freak out but I am. Hubby is reassuring and so is anyone else but I just feel like crying.
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Sa
Thank you so much Bailey and I am so sorry for your loss. I have my journal with me and will start tonight. It’s hard because hubby is so positive but we also have to be realistic. The days don’t match up to me but he says that the nurse seemed so positive that he doesn’t understand how I am so worried. I will defiantly keep you updated as I really have no one to talk to since we just moved to a new state. Thank you so much for your comforting words they are really helping me when my world is spinning.
Ba
If the worst does end up happening, it’s going to be really painful. I experienced an early MC at 5 weeks earlier this month, and even though I didn’t even have a chance to have an ultrasound, it was devastating. But my friends and family were there to support me as much as they could. It’s still normal to feel alone in this process, even when you have support systems in place. I would definitely encourage the journal (sorry, I’m a psych major, I can’t help it! Lol) and to practice lots of self care, no matter what happens ❤️ Keep us updated, if you feel comfortable with that. Sending love! ❤️
Sa
Bailey, thank you so so so much for your kind words. Getting a journal is honestly the best advice that I haven’t even thought of yet. Everything you said has hit me right in the heart. Thank you so much. I just want to be as positive as possible but also know that the worse is possible. What makes it worse is that I did track my ovulation and hubby was gone from April 22 to the 29th. And my first positive pregnancy test was on May 6th. I really just need to stop focusing on the dates.
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