My husband and I had our first child March 8th. We have had sex one time since then right after my 6 week appointment. I try to initiate it with my husband, but he just doesn't seem interested. He says that he's tired or stressed, or not in the mood. We have only been married for 9 months. I guess I just expecting to be enjoying each other a little more. We have been blessed with an AMAZING baby, and we are both getting the same amount of sleep that we always have, so that's not it. Between the self esteem issues I am having with my post baby body, and the lack of intimacy, I'm struggling. Any tips? I've tried to address it with him, but he gets defensive.