Are you cool with our BF/Husbands Baby Mama?

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If yes please tell me how you go to that point. 
My husbands baby mama and I don’t speak. At all. She tried “befriending” me but it was more to snoop around our lives. I’ve never been rude or nasty to her, just civil.  She’s also 3 years younger than me. 
Just wanted to hear other stories to see if it gets better or worse.

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Can’t be cool with a bitch that doesn’t exist lol. But if you’re having issues sit down with both of them, talk, and set boundaries

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Nope when I do meet her in person imma fuck her up onsite 😊 bitch talk big shit in the phone but I bet she won’t do shit in person

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The mother of my bfs daughter and I get along great! Takes baby steps, time, effort, and commitment. I went over to her house, met her (it was very awkward). We started picking his daughter up together and small things make big changes. I would text her and ask her “do you need anything for ***” 
(My bfs daughter is about a year old) we text and send her pictures when his daughter is over. 
Being nice and going out of your way to communicate can come a long way.

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girl, I feel ya.. his baby momma has total control and knows it, so if she doesn't want us seeing him, we dont.. it's the worst.. she try starting fights. she will send her little hoes after him to see if he falls for it. it gets old.. not all all how I wanted to be the step mom. I didn't wanna be her best friend, but I wanted to be to a point where we could all raise this boy together

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My husband’s baby mama lives in a different state than us so she’s barely a part of our life. She sees her son 2 weeks out of the year. We’re in good terms though. I make sure she gets to Skype with her son a couple of times a week and we’re friendly with each other. There’s no drama or whatever. My husband made sure of that when we first started dating. Pregnancies happen even when ur being safe. It changes your life (being a parent) but you should still be allowed to find love.

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My boyfriend has 2. The one he dated in hs (he’s 33) they were 17 her and I are very kind to eachother. The 2nd one he was with 10 years and she cheated. She had made up stories, about what happened, twisted things. I smiled at her  the first time I saw her and she ignored me, so with that I know to just leave her alone. I say you just leave it alone. Not every woman is the same. ☺️

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this is a hit or miss. As the mother my child's stepmother doesn't know or respect boundaries. Everyone is always so quick to say what she should and shouldn't be doing when that's HER child. I think the one who should or shouldn't be doing certain things are the step parents. HOWEVER its case by case and it truly depends on the type of person the mother is. But this is  a touchy subject for me lol. I could go on for days

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I think I’m a cool person 🙂

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