confused and bothered

Okay if you’ve been with someone for 3 years wouldn’t you feel like you could openly talk about kids and marriage?

I’m very confused about my boyfriend. He knows I want these things and he’s told me he wants them too... even with me.. but anytime I say something like “oh that baby is so cute” or “I can’t wait till we get married” or anything along the lines of kids and marriage he will just shut me down completely and say something short and rude or just ignore me.

It hurts my feelings. I’m not trying to force anything but I can’t say somethings cute or whatever?

I really just feel like I don’t even know. I feel like I can’t say anything or say something?

It’s so annoying.

I don’t wanna waste my time. Do you think I’m being stupid cause I feel this way?

Like shouldn’t I be able to say it’s cute? Or I can’t wait until we get married.

I don’t see how that could be negative, forceful or ANYTHING.

I forgot to mention I have spoken to him about this and he’s just mean to me and doesn’t care about how I feel...