Has anyone talked to friends/ family about trouble ttc? My husband and I haven’t told anyone that we’re having a hard time. Still, people keep asking “When are you having kids? You need to get going!” Is anyone else dealing with this?

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I can’t help but get irritated when asked questions like that, it’s definitely made me more sensitive to how couples may feel when talking about getting pregnant.

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I know no one means any harm by asking, but it still hurts a little to have to say every time, “maybe one day”

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My family always asks nobody knows we been trying for 10 cycles 😔 everyone keeps asking and I always say two years from now.. but I hate when they ask me I know they don’t know my struggle but I never knew it is so wrong to ask others this question.. in the whole 10 month process my sister had her baby girl and my sister found out she’s pregnant with her 4th even after having her tubes tied for months .. that really upset my husband.. just sucks at times I think I’m just meant to be an aunt and not a mom 😔😔😢

Has anyone talked to friends/ family about trouble ttc? My husband and I haven’t told anyone that we’re having a hard time. Still, people keep asking “When are you having kids? You need to get going!” Is anyone else dealing with this?

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