Would I be a horrible mother?

I have plans to go out Saturday with my best friend whom I haven’t seen in about a year or so. I just got out of a really controlling relationship. I have two kids (3 & 1). Would I be a horrible mother if I decided to actually go? I know if my ex finds out, he will call me a horrible mother bc I supposedly would be putting that before my kids. I haven’t ever been out with just friends. It’s always been with him & my mom.

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