Baby coming, parents causing issues

My baby is due next week. I’m feeling very frustrated and know it’s probably a mix of my hormones and a bit of new baby anxiety but I’m so fed up with my parents. Don’t get me wrong, I love them, but they are making everything 10xs more stressful.

I am a military spouse. We recently relocated bases so I’ve done my whole pregnancy essentially by myself with my husbands help when he wasn’t away. My parents have had minimal involvement despite me sending pictures and updates weekly. Now that the baby is close to coming they tell me they want to come visit and see the baby- which is fine. However, the military base has strict restrictions on who’s allowed to visit in the hospital, and allowed on base without a government ID. That being said, I need at least 10 days to fill out the correct forms and get them processed so my parents can come see us on the base. I’ve been asking for over a month now, very kindly I might add, if my parents could at least give my husband and I a general idea of when they are coming and the other info we need so I can do the paperwork BEFORE baby is here and so I don’t have to do it postpartum all sore and bleeding.

They seem to have every excuse in the book not to solidify anything- they say they need to wait until closer to the due date so they don’t schedule a trip when the baby isn’t here (even though I have an induction date and they could easily come after that), or they need to wait to ask for time off because they’d hate to ask “too early”, or they are still trying to budget things out. I get the trip can be stressful for them, but I’m kind of hurt and feel like they are only considering themselves- not the fact that if they keep procrastinating, I’m going to have to do mounds of paperwork with a new born, driving around not feeling my best, in a new-ish area, most likely without my husband because he works 5am-6pm. It would be so much less stress on us as new parents if I could submit everything now and just enjoy baby coming and help my parents plan everything else because they haven’t even picked a hotel, etc.

Again- I’m sure its a mix of my hormones and just anxiety in general. But I’m just so frustrated I almost want to ask them not to come for a month or two because I can’t do everything right when baby comes all alone. I think I just needed to vent, but advice is welcome.