Would counselling help me???

I’ve been on some really horrible relationships in the past, I’ve been cheated on beaten, just royally used for every penny because I’m generous and don’t like seeing them go workout, I don’t seem to learn my lesson, but anyway even if I meet a nice guy (not often) by the time we are a few months in I can’t help over thinking everything, everything they say, do or don’t say, it’s like I’m expecting everyone to cheat and even when they aren’t I can’t help thinking they are, I don’t check there phones or anything like that but I just always think it’s a girl messaging if it goes off, I can’t help myself!

Don’t get me wrong sometimes I’am right but I can’t live like this, ive just broke up with someone, he probably was but I have no evidence, but he’s lied about a lot, was sly with his phone and took me for every penny, and he was violent as well (he thinks because he didn’t hit me in the face it doesn’t count, but he strangled me, dragged me across the house by my hair, punches me in the arse and chest) I just feel I’ll never meet anyone and settle down because of they don’t ruin it then I do with my insecurities!

Now I’m single, would counselling help me not think everyone will cheat, help me actually trust someone because I can’t carry on like this because of past men taking advantage of me, I feel so low that I’ve let it happen again 😌😢💔