I won't be having a baby shower.

My SO and I decided a baby shower isn't nessicary. and here's why...

during the gender reveal we invited everyone in my family and in his. my mom and 2 sisters came. so did my father but he came from down south. We had an uninvited guest and it was my youngest sister. as soon as my mom got there she said hi baby. your sister(who is 15) was pregnant. and then she would walk by and just run her mouth. then my older sister said she is leavinf because she planned a cook out. knowing ive had that date set for a month and half. so my dad mom and her leave for the cook out. not even an he into the gender reveal. My oldest sister left because she had to go to work and that was a liget reason. My family is full of drama and on my SO side. there is only one person i talk to and thats his sister who would be throwing the baby shower. so by that we decided not to throw one because no one would show up for one and for 2 my family would make it all about them so i told them if they buy stuff to just come by and drop it off or visit for a bit because my family hasn't been in the pregnancy at all and I don't want them to try after she gets here.