SO is 20 years older what are your thoughts

Mercedes
So I am 18 years old and my hubby and I are TTC I have been getting alote of judgement because he is 38. I don't get it because he treats me better than any 20 year old would and it is my first stable relationship. He is the first man that has never hit me or abuse me in anyway. I'm happy but alote of people call him a pedophile even though I am the age of consent. Without any rude comments what is everyone's thought on this?