Hey . I recently broke up with my first boyfriend, in my opinion a pretty serious relationship of 8 months. I'm graduating this year and he's a year younger than me and I guess I got fed up with the fact he smoked so much pot and didn't find healthy ways to cope with his anger and depression . He also didn't drive or put in as muche ffort physically (sexually and emotionally he was everything I wanted) so I broke up with him. Now following the break up I felt okay, I cried like any other human being for the frstcouple days after. But then I was just faced with a slight guilt and I started to have fun with guys. After kissing a few dudes I decided I felt like it wasn't right and I should focus on myself. The thing is my coworker whom I had a crush on (I had just thought he was really cute and sweet while I was in the relationship) had hit it off after and we hang frequently (it's been about two weeks after my break up) I genuinely love to spend time with him as a friend and well as a little more. We communicate a lot and right now we are nothing but friends with benefits but also I'm worried about the feelings I will face. We both said we don't want a relationship and I just want tips on how to make this work cause I love the fun but a relationship is really the last thing I want right now.