Is this disrespectful? Or it’s just me

So my bf wanted his friends female cousin to come over to his house past 10pm to twist his hair In his room & I told him thats too late. I don’t mind her twisting his hair cause shit I can’t do it 😂but id appreciate if it was done earlier in the day in like the living room . He said his mom will be home which means nothing because we do a whole bunch of shit when his mom is home and it’s not about a lack of trust but it’s just out of respect . He definitely wouldn’t be okay with a guy in my room that late at night pampering me or doing whatever I asked him to. I told him I wanted a tattoo around my waist and he said he wanted to be there to watch cause he doesn’t trust that shit which is strictly professional🙄but it’s ok for him to do something like tht late at night and I definitely don’t want to be around to watch that I rather sleep so that’s out of the question . But he called me jealous and crazy as fuck when I was just trying to get him to see it’s out of respect for me & your damn self cause you wouldn’t want a guy over my house that late . & he kept saying his friend will be there which means nothing because his friend cheats on his girl 24/7 .. my bf knows and doesn’t say a word and his friend would do the same so if something like tht did happen I wouldn’t know even tho that’s not the point . Then he said u can end things if u don’t want her doing my hair cause I’m getting it done regardless then he called me a stupid bitch and jealous and I’m just like bitch ur missing The Whole point here .. FUCKING PUT SOME RESPECT ON MY NAME DAMMIT . If ur not ok w a guy at my house around 12 am pampering me then shit u should know u wrong