Family says i should have lost the baby weight by now

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Im going to be 8 months postpartum next week I’m exclusively breastfeeding. During my pregnancy i gained 52 pounds which my doctor said was fine as long as my blood pressure wasn’t high i was 119 pre pregnancy then 171 when i went into labor and have birth I’m now at 145 still and i just cannot loose the weight no matter eating right or exercising I’m ok with my weight but my parents and brothers are telling me how can i still be this fat after 8 months already I’m trying my hardest to love my post pregnancy body