I recently found out I am pregnant last Thursday which of course I was surprised we didn't try but, weren't preventing so I shouldn't be. I tried to hold off to tell him on Sunday but, that didn't go as planned he knew right away because of course the throwing up and being tired gave it all away. We talked yesterday on what we want to do but, he was like "no don't worry about me" it's you your body and pick a decision that would be less regrettable for you. He said if you want an abortion than I will pay for it and I won't leave you. He said if I want to keep this baby than I can that he won't resent me at all and we will still be together either way. We are only 21 so we aren't the youngest people who had kids but, it's a big responsibility. I decided to keep this baby I can't go through another lost I was depressed severely and thought of suicide I couldn't do this to myself. He doesn't resent me but, is it bad to not ask what he wants? he repeats himself alot saying it's my decision.