Second Pregnancy Help (SIL drama)

My sister in law wished a miscarriage on my eldest, because she wanted to have the first grandchild. Yes, she is evil. We don’t have anything to do with her unless there are family functions.

She did 2 rounds of <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> and is now 11 weeks pregnant. She is a huge attention whore. She stood up at our wedding and announced she was better than me and more in love with her boyfriend so they should have been married first. 🙄

At the baby shower she announced she was infertile, making everyone really awkward and leave early. It was weird.

Anyways, I messed up on my birth control and just received a positive pregnancy test. 2 years earlier than planned. We are excited! But, now I’m faced with an issue.

When do we tell our family? She already threatened everyone to “give her the spotlight” she is already a pregnancy nightmare.

I’m thinking of waiting until 20ish weeks? I just don’t want anymore drama. I love my little family and I’m worried her knowing will ruin it? Am I nuts?