references for feminist lit on conception

Hi, I've just started my ttc journey and am struck by the lack of literature (at least in the more mainstream lit I've read) about the issues of power and privilege during conception. This post stems from my frustration with my husband who, while very well intentioned and a great partner overall, is aloof about all the prep work I've done (research, opk test, nutrition, psychological, etc) prior to actually starting to try to conceive. I know I'm not alone and I was wondering if anyone had any recommendations for authors, sites, books, articles etc that speak to the power differentials when trying to conceive in a hetero relationship. Thank you!