i don’t know what to do

well i posted something on my sc story about me being in a mood & this lad popped up and he was being really nice to me ... so he sent me something to share him so i put “😍, girls” like everyone does ... and he was moody after it ... and my friend messaged me telling me that “im sly” and “her other friend likes him that we sit with” so i can’t message him , and because him and that girl we’re together ‘i can’t speak to him’ but if he doesn’t like her there’s nothing i can do? but no one lets me talk to him and i feel like there constantly trying to change my personality.. they hate the things i wear , they don’t like the people i speak to , they say “my other friends are weird and i shouldn’t speak to them” which makes me feel horrible. i don’t know what to do about it ... they make me feel insecure and no one truly sees how i feel because “they don’t want me to embarrass them”