Need advice

I am so annoyed ya'll...

My brother in law visits regularly (few times a week) and EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. he is here I am so overwhelmed.

Its non-stop "the baby could be a boy. I've seen girls become boys before. are you sure it's a girl? why aren't you giving a middle name? the name you picked sounds like a stripper name. you have to have the baby by Oct. 19th bc I'm leaving town the 20th."

And more things than this. Our baby girl has been verified twice. Once with 4d and once at our 20 week. The name we picked is Rory which I'm in love with and find it rude for him to even say it sounds like a stripper. wtf.

I am over the moon we are having another girl but he is driving me nuts and my husband won't say anything to him about it even though I have told him multiple times this upsets me and makes me uncomfortable to have to be defensive everytime he comes over.

What would you guys do? I get so stressed when he comes over. I'm tired of this.