So I’m going to be married to a Marine soon and I’m more then excited don’t get me wrong 😒😒 I love him with all my heart but it’s like when he’s home all he wants to do is fuck and it’s almost like all he wants is his own pleasure. The way I work with this is I don’t ask for anything because I don’t give anything so fucking is all we do it’s fair. Right?

He’s never seemed interested in “making love” so to say. I don’t know how to tell him that our intimate relationship needs work. How do I tell him that I don’t feel loved?

I know it can’t be that complicated, but it’s hard when all he does is play video games and ignore me most of the day (when he FaceTimes me) I’ve told him multiple times I always feel like I come in second to everything he does.

Maybe I’m just over thinking it? What should I do? How do I approach this?