Beak ups....

I really need help with getting over my child’s father... we was together for two years and have an 10 month old child! We just aren’t for each other. We’ve been broken up for 5 months now and it’s driving me nuts ... if I don’t call or text he does🙄 we had an very toxic relationship!! He blames everything on me blah blah blah. I’m tired of calling and texting every time I misses him and he bash me and we don’t even really communicate well when we do talk. But I just can’t stop ... I really do miss him but I kno we aren’t for each other.... idk what to do😣😏🤦🏾‍♀️😕