I NEED SOME URGET ADVICE *please read*

So I’ve been seeing this guy for give or take 8 months, so much has happened in these 8 months for both of us in personal situation but we are still there for each other. I really like him and I keep seeing him, he’ll invite me over to his place and we will just chill out and all that, and we always come close to making a move it just never follows through! I am really not sure what to do because 8 months and no progress really kills. Every time we make progress, he just undoes all the progress made. What should I do ?!!?!?