My boyfriend’s best friend is the biggest douche bag I’ve ever met. It started out great!! I went on a trip w them and their other friends to Big Bear and we had an amazing time. Even the best friend and I, whos name is Matt had a great time. My boyfriend was grabbing snacks and he brought up a bottle of wine and we all drank and talked and my boyfriend walked me back to my room and him and I fell asleep, woke up the next morning and we all hung out again that’s how the trip carried on.

When the trip ended, a couple months after he started acting really weird. For example my friend and I were talking about going to Italy together, and he (who has a wealthy family who cater to his every want type of thing) complained for a ridiculous amount of time about his trip to Italy and his “shitty hotel” which was a gorgeous hotel BTW. We looked it up online just to discover it was stunning. And even so, if it wasn’t, don’t complain about your privileges. A hotel is to shit shower and sleep, it’s better to spend more on the vacation itself anyways but his family didn’t spare any expense on the hotel either.

Anyways, he also complains about how he didn’t get scholarships for the college we go to. (Senior year were in) but his parents can afford to pay it all off with no loans!! So why the fuck are you complaining?! I could look past the pretentiousness even though it pisses me off. What pisses me off more is the fact that he started talking shit about me in front of my boyfriends other friends and my friends. When my friends told me what he said, it was all really shitty and untrue. Either bashing on my character/reliability (when he doesn’t know me outside of that one trip together, and I’ve never hurt my boyfriend, his friend) as well as implied I’m not intelligent enough for my boyfriend? When I received close to a full ride scholarship (tuition covered, which was 4/6ths of it) based on academics and I maintained a 4.0 in high school, a 3.5 3.6ish in college and I’m graduating a year early to become a lawyer with my bachelors in politics. So yes I do think I’m smart enough for just about anyone!

Anyway my boyfriend finally called him out on it, and he said he doesn’t like me because I change conversations when he’s speaking - I do this when he acts and talks like a pretentious asshole because it makes me and my friends who have classes with him uncomfortable as we don’t know how to react or respond. So what should I do? My boyfriend talked to him and he didn’t apologize to me or him, and he’s still being a dick and acting fake towards me.