When did you feel maternal and connected to your baby?

I’m 22 weeks and not feeling really connected to my baby yet! Don’t get me wrong, I’m super excited and couldn’t imagine if anything went wrong. But I’m waiting for that moment to feel connected and feel like a mom. Everyone keeps saying I should be feeling it by now! Does this make me a bad mom and a bad person? I want a baby so bad and I can’t wait, I’m just waiting for that feeling