Okay so me and my spouse have a cool sex life im opening him up into trying new things but he how do i go about telling him i kinda sorta don’t like sucking dick i do it because he’s my man and sometimes i be into it but sometimes it takes him too long to nut and he wants me to do all this extra stuff he see’s on porn instead of trying to figure out what i like that pleases me i don’t want to cheat , but how do i go about telling him to stop asking me for extra sexual favors and not putting me in the mood for them first example he’ll say (crawl to me and suck my dick baby) instead of putting me in the kid to make me want to crawl to him and he doesn’t eat my pussy how i like it sloppy til ny legs shaking or suffocating him how do i go about telling him these things or eat me more or how i like to be eaten out without sounding freaked out he only favors my clit i mean that’s cool but i like for my whole pussy to be in someone mouth ? Ladies i need answers