Fathers Day

Samantha • Married 💍 Bella Marie Bettes 03/28/2019💞 👶🏼🍼 Happily in love.💕

So, on Fathers Day, I decided to tell my boyfriend Happy Father’s Day. 😁 No, I’m not pregnant, and no we do not have a child together. But, we have been TTC for about 7 months now. 😘 Before we were together, he was with a girl for nearly two years. They had a lot of issues and broke up quite a bit. The first time they broke up and got back together, she found out she was pregnant. 😊 He was very happy until he realize it wouldn’t be his. But, he stepped up and stayed anyways to be there and support her and the child. About 6 weeks into the pregnancy, she lost the child due to her doing drugs. 😔😔 He was absolutely devastated, but stayed none the less. About 4-5 months later, they broke up again and then got back together. And she was pregnant again! But this time, it was his. His child. He was happy that he was going to have a child, but worried and a little unhappy at the same time. About 8 weeks in, she lost the child again because she kept doing drugs. 😔 To this day, he constantly thinks about these two precious beings that are his children. He lost two children because of someone else’s selfish choices. So, yes. I told him Happy Father’s Day. Because in my eyes, he is a father. He is a father who’s children are with God in heaven. He is a father who never got the chance to hold his babies. He will ALWAYS be a father. ❤️