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NO NEED FOR NEGITIVTY  I'm 17 just found out I was pregnant the sperm donor wants me to get an abortion I argued with him at first but now that's not what i want I haven't talked to him about it yet but I'm going to.Another thing I'm not in an good house hold for a child rt now I'm thinking about trying to save up for my own place before the baby come yet at that this is going to be my last year of high school my mother doesn't know I'm pregnant not planning on telling her or anyone I just need a lil geydence at this point IDK what to do its like I'm trapped in a closet with no way out

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So you don’t plan on telling your parents? You need to tell them. At 17 you need help. you’re going to need their support!

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I would look into open adoption. You’re so young and not that you couldn’t do it but you said your self your in a bad household, need to finish school, boyfriend’s not interested. It’s hard enough already even when your married let along young and unwed without a good support system. With open adoption you get to stay apart of your child’s life. If you plan on keeping the baby I would definitely find a support system. Good luck.

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First, BREATH! It’s going to be okay. 
I highly recommend you telling your mother at least. She will be a huge help hopefully. But it’s your body, your choice. Not your “sperm donors” you take time, figure it out and do what’s best for YOU. 💕

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Please see a doctor, take a prenatal, start reading up on pregnancy/birth, I don't know what your home situation is like, I know what it's like to come from toxic parents but find an adult maybe a family friend, a friends mom, or any one that you can lean on for support. Pregnancy is hard but worth it. You can also look into an early graduation program or maybe home schooling if that's something you may need. Good luck!

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If you are on your parents insurance you need to tell them to get proper medical care

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don't let him talk you in to an abortion!! there is always adoption.

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You need to tell your mom. Realistically at 17 you will need a good amount of help until you graduate and get on your feet. You will start to show eventually anyways so your mom will figure it out one way or another.

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