i need some advice girls please ‼️‼️

gonna keep this short and simple.

my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now.

in a relationship, of course there are certain people you’d like your significant other to spend less time with. like an ex, someone they’ve had a previous fling with, etc.

there are certain guys i know my bf wouldn’t want me to spend one on one time with, so i don’t. out of respect for him.

but for him, there’s this ONE girl. hallie. she’s sent him nudes, they hooked up a week before we got together, and i always catch them 1 on 1 when he doesn’t even tell me he’s going with her. it’s happened DOZENS of times.

i just had a friend send me a pic of hallies snap story of him and her sitting in a shake shop eating burgers together. (i’m out of town and he didn’t tell me he was planning on being with her)

is this okay? they flirt and have the desire to be alone. do i have the right to be mad and frustrated?

am i in the wrong here? i’m not “triggered” i’m respecting him and keeping our relationship healthy.....? please help me