Should I be mad or am I just being a b****? 🧐

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Is it selfish of me to get mad that my other half is out getting drunk in town?... while i worked today, I’m 35 weeks pregnant, and I’m so uncomfortable right now and we haven’t had a date night in forever but he’ll go out!!

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I understand where you are coming from. I would just talk to him and tell him how you feel. I'm 37 and 2 and my husband still goes out (in town) but knows not to over do it in case I go into labor. Plus, when he goes out he always stays at his brothers so I get the whole bed to myself. TOTALLY WORTH IT!

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when he goes out I'm invited.. but lately I just can't take the walking from bar to bar... I was a trooper on cinco de mayo with our friends,  but no more.  I certainly want to have wine night dates with girlfriends after baby is born.  he can go out now,  and remember I sacrificed 9 months and stay in for me later

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I get why you’re annoyed but if it’s not an everyday thing just let him enjoy the night..
Soon enough you won’t be pregnant anymore and you can have your night out!

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I have the same issue with my partner! We have had numerous arguments over it! Every now and then is ok but I find it hard that he can do what he wants while I’m stuck at home feeling uncomfortable and sorry for myself!

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My hubby and I agreed that after 36 weeks he wouldn’t go out anymore so I let him have one last party night at 35 weeks. I did prepare him beforehand though so he knew that would be the last time and we let all our friends know too. Now that I’m 36w3d it’s all about us and date nights both in and out of the house. My advice would be to let him know that now that you’re getting close you don’t want him to miss you going into labor and you don’t feel comfortable being home alone and being this far along in your pregnancy Incase something happens. Thats how I explained it to mine and he completely understood.

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Yeah it’s kinda irritating but with my man how I look at it is any time now the baby will be here and he won’t be doing that for quite some time. Yeah it sucks being pregnant af home alone and crazy uncomfortable but I just enjoy the quiet alone time 😌

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I’m all for my hubby getting it out now lol. Once baby boy is here we won’t be able to do all the things we used to so I dont mind him enjoying himself now .
He’s not out all the time but he goes weekly to his friends to record music and gets home pretty late. Usually meets his friends once or twice a week for drinks and golfs Sunday mornings.
I think I don’t mind because if I wasn’t pregnant I’d be doing the same stuff 🤷🏻‍♀️ I feel bad holding him hostage because I’m pregnant ya know

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I would be mad. Baby could come any time, and his ass doesn’t need to be drunk in the delivery room.
There’s just over a month left if you make it to your DD...he should be staying home with you.

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It wouldn’t be a problem with him going out once and a while but if it’s a every week thing then that’s bad ! Plus he should still make time to do a date night with you even if that just means a nice dinner somewhere

Should I be mad or am I just being a b****? 🧐

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