I don’t know if I should trust my obgyn

Over the last eight months my symptoms have worsened with each month. Pain during and after intercourse, lightening pains in my vagina and rectum, horrible cramps, pain passing bowel movements, bloating, nausea, etc. I’ve had two transvaginal ultrasounds and both times it hurt SOO bad when she pressed on my left ovary that I had to make her stop. My obgyn is convinced I have endo, but can not properly diagnose it without a laparoscopy.

So she suggests that (since I want to try for a baby this fall/winter) I wait until I am done having children to do a laparoscopy. She suggests this because the scar tissue could build up even worse after having surgery and cause a higher risk of infertility.

I’m just not sure how I feel about this... she may be right, but I don’t know? I just want to have a solid answer on what is going on inside of my body, and this pain progresses every month. I can’t take it anymore.