My Story! Sorry so long!

I wanted to share my story ! I see so many relationships ending or not doing so well . I took a trip to Romania to see and take care of my grandma . Where I met a guy. He was sweet and treated me right in the begging. He wanted a family. Once we knew I we're pregnant. He changed. He was abusive. I was pregnant and he was hitting me. I instantly knew I wasn't in love. And that I had to get out. I was three months pregnant when my parents bought me a ticket to return back to Canada. I was devestated and broken. I went through my pregnancy alone with only support from my parents. After she came O I had planned to go back to be with her father so we could be a family for her sake. I was a single mother for two years. It was the hardest thing I had ever done. But being her momma was the best thing that ever happened to me. I had made some bad choices and almost lost her to the ministry. I changed me life around and started working started loving myself again. Put my daughter in daycare. There at work I met the most amazing man. At the end of the day I couldn't wait to go home to my daughter. But this man I didn't even know always managed to make me smile. He loved kids. And I guess you could say we moved into things pretty fast. He moved in after our first date. I got pregnant after a month of being with him. He was a good man. He liked to have fun and drink. And while I was pregnant I told him if he wasn't willing to change we would walk. I had already been a single mom and knew I could do it again. It didn't take long for him to change. He was the bestvdaddy to my daughter she loved him dearly. And called him daddy all on her own. Just before we had our son I found out he was messaging this girl and flirating with her. They had all cute names for each other. They even sent pictures to each other. No nudes or anything but it was enough for me to get upset. I then kicked him out. But I am the forgiving time. So we worked through the hard times. Two years later. Just before we got married I left. Took the kids and left. I was gone for for days maybe five. In that time he really though things through. We both did. We loved each other that much was clear. We worked even harder and started communicating like never before. Three months later just after our son turned 2 we got married ! It was the happiest day of our lives. Next to my kids being born of course. I love this man we have now been married for almost two years and pregnant with our third his second. He is so supportive and helpful! helps clean the house and cooks for us watched the kiddos and gives me a break ! I'm truly lucky and blessed ! Sometimes it take a lot of hard work but it is possible ! we didn't need therapy only because we knew we could truly get through our problems if we really talked ! He knows to give me space and when to just holds me tight ! If you have read this all the way through ! Thank you ! And if your having trounce or doubt it will get better ! If your in an abusive relationship get out ! Especially if kids are involved ! :) Happy Saturday all ! ♡♡