So our hospital is 40 min from house. Our first pregnancy(twins) we lived 10 min from hospital. we had a placenta abruption and dr said an hour later our son wouldn’t have made it. They were born at 34 wks I had started having contractions at 33 wks. Now pregnant with one. Hubby wants us to stay with his parents starting like 32 wks. Incase it happens again so our kids are already there and they live 15 min from hospital. On one hand I understand his fears but i also want to be in my own house I’m going to be uncomfortable as it is towards the end of my pregnancy I just want to be able to relax in my own house. I told him if there were any precursors such as the contractions we could go to his parents for the remainder but I didn’t want to go so early. Any thoughts am I just being selfish?