Gender reveal !!

We are having twins and we wanted to do a gender reveal party! However my entire family lives in another state and they can’t make it to the reveal since it will be a month before my baby shower. My husband’s family is all in the same state where we live. I suggested to my husband we have a small gender reveal with my family since we are traveling there soon (my family will keep the genders a secret) and we will have one with his family here. We both will know what the genders are before the gender reveal. My husband thinks it’s a stupid idea to do 2 gender reveals. What do you guys think? Any suggestions?