Help me! I’m devastated!

My bf & I of a little over 4 years have been on a break since Monday...like 5 days now. We got into a little argument that blew up into something so huge. The thing is though is that we’re both 21 & we both live with our families to save money until we can move out. So during that argument we had, his family heard. His house is super small & windows were open so they can hear the smallest of things...they’ve even told us to turn the tv down when it’s not that loud. Both my bf & I were planning on ending the break tomorrow & me coming over to his house. I knew his parents are not happy with me so I’ve been planning on talking to them this whole week because I don’t feel like it’s appropriate to just walk in their house like that. Regardless of our break ending tomorrow, my bf still wanted to ask his parents if it’s okay for me to come over on Saturday. I understand this because it is their house. So I asked him today if he asked them & he said he did & they don’t want me over anymore. This broke me because I used to always stay over & this is really the only way I see my bf since I live an hour away. I asked my bf why they would say that & he said they think I’m tearing their family apart & traumatizing his 17 & 20 year old brothers. His mom is very dramatic, but I am definitely not traumatizing anyone. My bf told them to just give me a chance & they said they’ve given me enough chances. My bf & I have fought in the past before & like I said the walls are very thin & his parents like to eavesdrop...so they’ve heard us before. But they’ve never mentioned to me or my bf about it at all...which I feel like if they were really feeling something they should have mentioned it. His parents rarely fight because his dad is always gone working & only comes home at night.

I’ve been nothing but good to them in the past. I even offered to pay for an x ray for their dog today before I found all of this out. Now instead of going over tomorrow I have to wait until Sunday to talk to them. I absolutely hate confronting others or talking to people like this but this is how important it is to me. My bf said he’d be there with me but that I have to do something extraordinary. I wanted to go over tonight to just get it over with but my bf said it’s better to think it all the way through of what we’re going to do rather than just wing it. & I can’t on Saturday because we’re both busy & I don’t want to intrude when they’re getting ready to go to an event. I don’t even know what to do. I’ve literally been hurting every day of this break & now I’m hurting more knowing that his parents hate me based off of things they hear. They don’t know every detail or even what I’m going through. I’ve been dealing with a lot this past week, my grandpa passing, starting a new demanding job, finishing school, waiting for nursing application statuses, and trying to care for my grandma. A LOT has been on my mind & it wasn’t in the right place that day we fought. Now I’m scared & my anxiety is so high about what’s going to happen. I just want to run over there & he happy with my bf. What is something extraordinary I can do & how can I even go about this??! I need all the help!!!