So my FIL is just telling people.

👼👼👼Melissa 👼👼👼

I'm so, so furious.

so backstory, my FIL and husband co-own a store in the local mall. today was the 10th anniversary.

while we were there, the security guard (who I am very fond of, he used to walk me to my car when I worked in the food court, and has always been lovely) came over and congratulated us.

I literally said "Dave how the FUCK do you know?!" because a few weeks ago DH was also congratulated by a lady at the welcome center.

poor Dave tried to quickly backpedal and blame Facebook and I told him that NO one is posting about it online.

I haven't even told my gramma or aunt yet.

we are 9 weeks tomorrow. I have had 2 miscarriages (and DH had one with his ex) and I am adamant about not being public until August.

we have a lot of friends and practically family in that mall, and I am just so sick that he is taking this from us. and then to have the audacity to lie about it and try to blame his girlfriend.

I wish I had shut down DH when he wanted to tell him a month ago. I'm so angry.