Just wanting some advice on some things that have been happening with my boyfriend recently.

For the past 6 weeks we have been talking even though our parents have told us not to... their reason being our age (I’m 17, he’s 16). But on Sunday night, I felt something wasn’t right. My boyfriend wasn‘t responding to my messages, even though he had read them. And my gut told me something had happened. I barely got any sleep that night because of worrying about him. Monday morning comes and I start getting weird messages from him, sounding nothing like him... he’s making up lame excuses for not talking to me, and just generally not acting like my boyfriend would normally. Later that morning I get a message from his sister who had access to internet for about 15 minutes (their family is seriously strict on internet and their kids). She said that my boyfriend’s and my messages had be found by his dad and it all blew up with a yelling and screaming match. And that his dad had been talking to me as my boyfriend... and that nothing good was going to come from it. I have continued to talk to my “boyfriend” as if I didn’t know it wasn’t him. But “he” (actually his dad) has been saying weird stuff like asking where I am and if I can send him photos.

My main concern isn’t that, but rather my boyfriend’s safety. His dad can get violent. And that is what scares me.

I haven’t heard anything from any of their family (apart from a “sorry” today for my “boyfriend’s” lack of sending messages.

I am thinking of going to the police tomorrow if I haven’t heard anything else because of possible mild identity theft and asking for photos.

What I would like to happen is for my boyfriend and I to be somewhere together, safe, away from both my family and his, as both are over the top control freakish.

Any advice on how to get that to come about when I have no contact with him, or advice on going to the police or not, or even just general encouragement would be much appreciated.

I am so scared for my boyfriend because I do not want him hurt and I do not want to lose him... please help.

BTW I’m going to post this in a few groups just to get as much help as possible.