I don’t know what to wear to my wedding

Leana

Hi friends! My fiancé and I recently got engaged and she’s always known that she would wear a suit on her wedding day. I have always struggled with what I wear and how I present myself especially when it comes to blurring gender lines. I grew up expecting to wear a big ‘ole white dress on my wedding day. I think my fiancé, her family and my family expect me to as well. But I’m not sure that a suite or a dress are really me... I have no idea what to do. Does anyone have any advice?