So me and this guy started dating way back to October. Everything was fine, we went on so many dates and he always was showing me attention... but everything changed in January. He started being very distant to me, not showing me too much attention, less dates. It was like I did something wrong but every time I asked him if he was okay, his answer was “I’m fine” and then we will start arguing because I knew he wasn’t fine. I mean what boyfriend is so rude to you if he isn’t mad? He would only showed me affection and that he cares when a guy was hitting on me. I started showing him less attention and ignore him and he started acting very sweet to me in April. We were doing really good, we saw each other every week and I was actually happy that he changed and he was trying to make me feel loved. For a second I thought me and him had a chance but that didn’t last too long. At the end of the month he asked for a break because he said I was being too “whiny” and “controlling”. I never ever thought I was being these things, all the time I made sure he was happy and I gave up so many things for him and that’s how he said thank you. I knew what a “break” meant, he was just breaking up with me. So he just left me, we didn’t talk for 2 weeks... then I get a text from him saying that he misses me and wants to fix things. Because I have such a big heart, I forgave him. Well... he didn’t fix ANYTHING. He was leading me on, then he was leaving me, then he was coming back. That’s how it was for a month. I was so heart broken and all I wanted was him so I gave him a chance every single time. Later on, I found out that in March he went to this party and a girl tried to kiss him but he didn’t kiss her back. I was fine with that but he wasn’t and he felt like he “betrayed” me. That’s why he asked for a break. Then one of his friend texted me saying that he’s getting with someone else and I have to move on. I confronted him and he told me he saw that girl only as a friend and he knew she wanted more than friends. The thing that really hurt me about it was that this girl was dating his best friend. They both 3 (my ex, his best friend, and her) were hanging out sooo much like every single day. It was very suspicious to me but you know, I was trying to not be “controlling” as he said, so I trusted him hanging out with that girl because they were just “friends”. Now, a few weeks ago I asked him to drop his friendship with that girl and tell her where she stands in his life if he wants to fix things with me. He said he did but I don’t think he ever did. He’s saying that he wants to fix things again but I don’t believe him and I don’t have too many feelings for him anymore.