Are you ok with your significant other checking other people out?

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I was out at the mall shopping with my significant other and noticed that his eyes followed two decently attractive looking women. He didn’t turn his head back or anything but his eyes definitely followed until we had passed them. I can’t help but feel hurt and insecure about it. Especially being slightly bigger and pregnant. What’s your opinion ladies?

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My husband and I tell each other who we find attractive all the time. It’s natural! He is coming home with me and vice versa.

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We look together and go did you see that 😂😂😂 we moreso make a game of it. Even if we’re in the car and a guy is running shirtless I’ll say oh heyyy handsome then stare straight into my husband’s face while he’s driving. I personally don’t see a problem with looking but that’s my relationship we’re more laid back. My problem is when a waitress asks one check or two when we have wedding bands on and we’re drinking out of the same damn milkshake 🙄😂

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not in front of me but for anyone to think their partner (male or female) doesn't notice attractive ppl or sneek a  peek at great boobs, ass... is delusional!

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Its usually me who checks out girls and I’ll turn to my SO and say “omgosh did u see how beautiful that girl was?” Or “omg her boobs are so big 😍” or “check out her ass” and he usually responds with “omg your crazy” and tells me I’m so beautiful 🙄 like come on just check her out with me lol it’s not weird

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Have you ever seen a man walk by and thought him attractive? I have but it doesn't change how I feel about my husband, just a thought.

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We ususlly point out womens butts and to look how big/nice they are! lol I used to get mad but then i was like oh well might as well enjoy the view too lol

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I was walking with my husband at this outside mall and caught him checking out a girls ass, I then proceeded to smack his arm BUT then another cute girl passed by wearing jean shorts and I caught myself looking at her ass and I told my husband laughingly “ok I get it now, it’s really all up in your face and hard not to stare at” 😂

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I don’t really know if my boyfriend does it but if I see someone I’ll glance but I won’t stare for a long time lol Other people are attractive to us also it doesn’t mean anything.

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All the time, we’ll be that ‘that girl finnneeeee’ lol

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In my opinion, it is human nature to see things that are visually attractive or interesting. I can't get upset for him looking at an attractive woman when I do the exact same thing (I am 100% heterosexual). It is just in us. It is when they become disprespectful about it when I would be upset, like you said turning their head to look back, making comments, etc.

Are you ok with your significant other checking other people out?

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