Relationship Advice Please š©
Long story short, I have been with the father of my unborn (13weeks preg) child for about 10 1/2 months. We arenāt official and he has commitment issues. I was his official girlfriend for about two months before he broke up with me saying he was too stressed with life events (parents messy divorce , school, work, etc.) and hasnāt asked me to be his girlfriend again since. I donāt understand the big deal and try to see his point of view but just canāt. Im loyal to him and he says heās loyal to me so whatās the big deal to be his official girlfriend? weāre having a BABY together ? we spent most days and nights with eachother. he says heās āscaredā of the official commitment and loves how things are now. we act like a couple and bring eachother around our families, plan to live together once baby is born. im not sure what to do at this point seeing as I love him and want to be with him but i just want the title so badly I donāt understand why I donāt have it yet since we act like weāre a couple ?! Iām trying to be patient because other than not having the official girlfriend title he takes great care of me . P LS give me some advice on how to deal with this?!
p.s no, itās not possible he cheats, iām with him 24/7, see his texts that come in, and trust him when it comes to that aspect.
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