Today should be such a happy day. But I'm sad. not because I am disappointed about what gender my sweet baby is. But because I took something so special from my husband. You see he has never been to a gender scan. And this is his 6th baby our first one together. But I didn't know that because I didn't pay attention to him when he said something. So instead of an incredibly sweet moment to share with him I had planned to do a gender reveal cake. So I told him he could find out but not tell me. And I m so sad cuz I didn't know what a big deal it was till today. The day of my reveal. So even tho I'm surprised and happy with the fact that we are having a little GIRL. I am struggling so much with how terrible I feel for taking that from him.