boyfriends / husbands

my boyfriend said he likes to masturbate but we live together. idk i was like “huh” about it because i’m there? am i not good enough? LOL but i didn’t mind it. but then he said that if he found dildos that we’re bigger than his “friend” he’d feel like shit... but but? idk. are we both wrong? idk i feel like we should both be allowed or none. not just him, feel me? but i don’t want to be a dick so i just brushed it off

. what do you guys think ?