He can’t get off...

I don’t know what to do. My husband say’s he can’t get off when I get “too wet”. He say’s he can’t feel me then. I have a hard time getting wet. I can so turned on I’m begging for him, but I still just don’t produce much lube on my own. I would like to turn to lube because it hurts for him to go in when I’m not wet, but then he can’t climax because it’s too wet. I also wanted to order Preseed and give it another try, but that will make it too wet. I’m just lost. I guess I’ll just have to have painful sex. I guess a chance at a baby is worth that.