Im expecting my first in Sept. Both of my parents are worried about who will get to see the baby more. My mom lives right behind me but she works nights. My MIL lives 15 min away and thinks Im going to leave my baby with my mom all the time. They both have been going over the top trying to buy me and coax me into letting them "have him". I straight up had to tell my mom HARD NO the other day because she was like "I could take the baby to work with me since I work nights." Im like NO YOU WONT PSYCHO. They are seriously having a pissing contest over who gets to see him more. I need to set boundaries but that's going to be hard to do since they both have been breathing down my neck.