hey ladies.

so i need a little bit of advice. im currently pregnant with my 2nd child, but its my first with my boyfriend of 4 years. on the day i deliver our daughter, my boyfriend is & has always been adamant about us being the only ones in the delivery room when she comes. i used to agree with this, before i was pregnant but now that were actually here my feelings have changed.

he doesnt want his mom in there (theyve never had the best relationship) & he doesnt want my mom in there either. my mother & i have a good relationship, were very close & she helps me so much when i comes to my son already & i know she will when it comes to my daughter. besides that, it just wouldnt feel right to me to not have her there with me. if he doesnt want his own mother in there thats HIS business but i dont feel its fair to sacrifice what i want for him in THIS particular situation, being that IM THE ONE going thru labor & discomfort that day. i understand shes his daughter too, & he says he just wants this to be a special moment that just him & i share, but he keeps putting pressure on me about it & its like hes borderline bullying me about her not being in the room. hes even taken it as far as saying if shes in there he’ll wait in the waiting room. i feel thats so unfair & hes being incredibly childish & selfish. ive tried explaining this to him but he just wont change his mind.

any opinions? helpppp pleaaaaseee ? 😫