Okay so it’s my boyfriends birthday next week, (the first birthday I’ve experienced with him) and he likes anal. He’s amazing n has said that he wants me to get to know him more and be more comfortable around him before we try it.

I haven’t said anything to him but I’m going all out - sexy outfit on the way, and a but plug to surprise him with.... let’s just say IM SCARED👀

I know that we will need lots of lube etc (I’ve done more than enough research)... but I’m just wondering if there’s any advice people can give because he is massive n I’ve fingered my ass once (first of many to prepare) n it didn’t hurt because I took it slow n used lube but I bled a little and a little bit of flesh came out... I think I was too rough as I have acrylics.. but yeah HELP ME BE LESS NERVOUS 😩

UPDATE 1

Tried anal.... loved it that much we did it 4 days in a row..... yes FR😉 just “warm up” don’t go guns blazing... also be VERY horny and persevere because damn that shits worth it😏😏 and thankfully I didn’t Shit all over him😂 deffo recommend using a buttplug first

UPDATE 2

Okay so I don’t like sex when I’m on my period coz I think it feels shit and I have a very heavy flow... so I was like omg I like anal let’s just do that I WAS NOT INTO IT

YA PUSSY NEEDS TO BE POKED BEFORE OK LADIES IM DEAD ASS RN I CRIED FOR ABOUT TEN MINS IT FUCKING WRECKED

moral of this story .... be horny, be happy, be in love, be with someone you’re comfortable with, starting position should be on your side and lube that shit up ok ok ohhhh and use a but plug PRIVATELY just to loosen up n let your body prepare for what’s about to happen, I put it in n took it out twice so I didn’t “sting” in my opinion this is the key and I need to just get that out there😭😂