Friends think I’m a bad mom because I don’t spend a lot of money...

My husband and I lived in a $400,000 home. Had all the fancy boats and campers. We both worked and had money to blow. We decided to have a family. We sold EVERYTHING! We decided we’d like me to stay at home with our babies. I was the bread winner so it was a big blow to our financial state... or so we thought! We are so much happier now!

We now live in a small $160,000 home. I coupon and stay at home with my two kids. I went to a friend’s baby shower and over heard my old “friends” talking about how I’ve let my children down by giving them second hand things and moving them to “a shithole”

I thought we were doing good here. Our kids have lots of experiences and I love being home with them. Now, I regret that maybe I’m not giving them a great life with all they could ever want. 🤷🏽‍♀️