im 21 and live with my parents and my bf does too, h has always been the type of person that loves making experiences and enjoying his youth and doing crazy stuff, im more of the reserved type that likes having fun but not out of the blue, also i have a curfew that ive been trying to fix with my mom so i can go out later hours however, my bf seemed cool with it at the beginning but lately hes been commenting on how i shouldnt text my mom or ask her to let me hang out later, i absolutely have no problem with arriving home at a certain hour unless its an special occassion but he does, i lied to my mom about where i was going and she found out so now im under watch, last night i talked with my bf about how i wanted both of them to be happy, that maybe i would go out later hours but not right now, that i need to respect my moms rules and i have no problem and that i felt like i let myself be influenced by him going out all night, he then told me he didngt know if he wanted that and that we have different lives and stuff, i honestly got so sad he was chosing night and experiences at clubs and running down a street at 4 am over me, i never prohibted doing that stuff or going out with his friends, weve gone to music festivals at 3am and he also has stayed at my house until 2 am, weve gone to parties and yes i have to get home by 12 but why cant he just have enough, i feel so sad and hurt that he honestly has told me he wants his youth to be like those music videos where guys party all night and do stupid things, i dont jugde him but why would he change me over that? am i less important thn strangers and clubs? and dancing at 5 am ? dont get me wrong, i respect he wants to do that but i feel so dumb for wasting 1 year with him knowing he would rather be out all day than taking me home early, he tried to break up with me and i wasnt begging him or anything i just told him how i felt and he decided he didnt want to do it, i told him i needed time and he needs to get his priorities straight, idk what to do