Can you have a whorish personality?

My ex-bf called me a whore and felt very insecure because his friends were my friends too (I knew them for as long as I knew him and they were all very dear to me, like family) so I treated them as such. I don’t mean sitting on their lap or shit like that but literally friendly talk and calling to go meet them, etc. But my ex-bf was abusive and manipulative and cheated on me multiple times so I figured those were his own mistakes projecting on his fears.

Fast forward to my current boyfriend: he says that I’m just too friendly and can’t say no, this is because I speak to male friends online and share pictures and etc but one of these friends was introduced to me through my bf (they’re best friends) and he’s been sending me pictures of Czech Republic (were he’s at vacationing) and of course I answer because I’m not leaving him on read. Right? I swear to god I have no second intentions and I understand that even though the males I talk to may have, I’m sure I love my boyfriend. But I can’t help but think that maybe I’m just naturally whorish with my attitudes? I don’t post personal pictures online, I don’t flirt, so could it be “natural”? Am I wrong or are they insecure? Idk.